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文 / Virginia Satir

 

I want to love you without clutching;
我想愛你而不抓住你

appreciate you without judging;
欣賞你而不批判你

join you without invading;
參與你而不會冒犯你

invite you without demanding;
邀請你而不必強求你

leave you without guilt;
離開你而不覺歉疚

criticize you without blaming;
批評你但並非責備你

and help you without insulting.
並且幫助你而不羞辱你

If I can have the same from you,
如果我也從你得到相同的

then we can truly met
那麼我們的相會就是真誠的

and enrich each other.
而且能彼此潤澤